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Seek Counseling? Who, me?
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Perhaps you have been debating for
some time whether or not to seek the services of a counseling
professional. Or, perhaps a loved one has been urging you to seek
assistance. There are options other than professional counseling -- talking with
relatives, friends, church elders -- or reading self-help books. All of
these are valuable at times. Some choose to just keep quiet,
suffer stoically, and keep all "personal issues" secret. When is
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Professional counseling operates on carefully
defined boundaries, ethics, and scientifically
based principles.
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When is it Time
to Seek Counseling? |
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- When a problem, issue,
or personal struggle persists or worsens.
- When an outside,
objective perspective or opinion would help.
- When what you are doing
is not getting you what you want.
- When an argument
repeats without resolution.
- When significant others
express concern for your welfare.
- When arguing becomes
abusive, whether verbal or physical.
- When feelings of
emptiness, anger, guilt, etc. become chronic.
- When existing parenting
strategies are ineffective and conflict escalates over time.
- When work productivity
and personal relationships suffer from unresolved issues, past hurts, or
current conflicts.
- When impulsive or
compulsive behaviors (including use of alcohol, mind or mood altering
substances, gambling, eating, sex) are damaging to your self-worth, physical
health, or relationships.
- When sleep, appetite,
or mood patterns are persistently disrupted.
- When you are having
difficulty managing multiple stressors, losses, or pressures.
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People who seek counseling are
not "crazy," but in fact are people of courage. It takes courage to confront
troublesome issues or behaviors that are not working and to seek change.
That is why at IPPS we hold our clients in high regard, respecting their right
to make informed choices regarding changes in their lives. Change is not
always easy.
Daniel L. Baney, Ph.D. Psychologist HSPP |
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If you have questions about whether or not you might
benefit from professional counseling, feel free to contact us with any
questions. |
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